A Quiet Victory

I haven’t posted here in a while -for various reasons. I am now in a place where I feel comfortable resuming this blog – there is so much to share. I read all of your comments and cherish them. (I even value those who may disagree because I learn from them.) Thanks in advance for reading…


In a recent TED Talk, Transgender Model Geena Rocero referred to her driver’s license with the corrected name and gender not as a license to drive – but a license to live!

I’m continually surprised by the number of people who aren’t even aware that your driver’s license identifies you with the gender binary – either “M” or “F”; perhaps because those folks have never had to suffer the indignity of being challenged when trying to use a bathroom or changing room when buying clothes.

They have never had to spend anywhere from several hundred to maybe several thousand dollars to have their gender marker changed.

Texas isn’t exactly a friendly place for Transgender people. We face opposition at every turn; in fact this past legislative session, four bills were sent to committee that would have criminalized bathroom usage and created a slew of unintended consequences.

Richard Pena and Debbie Riddle authored those bills using fear as reasons why Transgender people should be unfairly punished. Thankfully, those bills failed. The truth is, that in the 200 or so municipalities or school districts where laws respecting the rights of Transgender people using the restrooms with which they identify, there have been no significant increases in public safety issues. Frankly, it’s a non-issue.

It’s more critical now than ever before that our I.D. match who we are and how we present.

I will never forget the day I received my court order legally changing my name to Leslie and my gender to Female. I cried in the judges chamber and thanked the judge for changing my life. It’s THAT big a deal.

Recently a renegade bureaucrat at the Texas DPS became a one-woman crusade against name and gender changes. The DPS began requiring paperwork they were not legally entitled to; asking for a copy of the name and gender petition when she was sent a fingerprint card in order to do a background check. She began asking for surgeons letters. (Neither of which are required)

Nothing that indicated a gender marker change was being processed.

The majority of name and gender marker changes in Dallas County are done through one local attorney; Katie Sprinkle. (Full disclosure, she is also my partner who I love dearly)

Katie knew she had the law on her side. She hit the books and pulled up statutes pertaining to background checks, name changes and what was required to be sent to DPS. The brief was 10 pages of compelling and unambiguous evidence that the employee at the DPS was over-stepping. (To put it politely.)

Katie presented this brief to Presiding Civil Judge Craig Smith and he agreed – even going so far as to call the DPS and speak with the renegade employee and her supervisors, telling them to knock it off.

The other 12 civil court judges in Dallas County were all in agreement.

This is huge! It affects more than just the petitions of those Transgender residents of Dallas County, but everywhere there are judges that will sign gender correction orders.

You won’t likely hear about this anywhere else. It was done quietly, with dignity, behind the scenes.

Recently, there has been an epidemic of Texas functionaries from County Clerks to our Attorney General threatening to thumb their collective noses at the U.S. Supreme Court and the U.S. Constitution – so it comes as little surprise that the laws of Texas can be considered by some at the DPS as mere suggestions.

I’m so proud of Katie. She doesn’t go around tooting her own horn, but she has been a tireless advocate for the Transgender community in North Texas. She founded a legal clinic at The Resource Center serving members of GEAR and has done pro-bono work or reduced fee services of all kinds for the Transgender community. She even makes her name and gender paperwork available to do-it-yourselfers at no charge.

She and I joined others from Resource Center a couple of weeks ago in speaking to members of the U.S. Attorney’s office for the Northern District of Texas and sharing the challenges of the Transgender community. Katie also works in cooperation with Equality Texas and Lambda Legal. She puts herself out there. She truly cares.

So here’s a big giant thank you to Katie Sprinkle and the judges in Dallas County who realize just how important it is to have the simple dignity of identification that matches who we are.

It’s our license to live – it’s good to know there are people out there to help make sure that license doesn’t expire.

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12 Responses to A Quiet Victory

  1. Sam Prance says:

    Hi Leslie,

    I edit a website called Prancing Through LIFE (http://prancingthroughlife.com/) and we’re just about to relaunch for a new season (03/08/15). We’re starting the season with a week focused on gender identity and what it means in relation to culture today. I was wondering if we could possibly re-post this piece on our site, as we’d love to have it.

    Please let me know what you think.

    Endless love,

    Sam x

    • Yes, with my blessing. Thanks a bunch!


      • samprance says:

        Hi Leslie,

        Sorry for the lack of contact. Just to keep you posted we’d still love to repost this piece, however, we’re pushing back our launch to mid/late September. We decided to do this so that our trans contributors for the week could have a chance to guest edit the site should they wish (help source/read through content for the week, put forward ideas as to how it should be run and navigate what direction it takes). Would you be interested in getting more involved? And, if so, in what way am I best contacting you. My email is samprance@gmail.com if that helps.

        Much love,

        Sam x

      • No worries at all. You have my blessings.


  2. Are you guys still in the legal help business for transgender persons? Julia Marshall

  3. Lisa Meek says:

    I found you on Facebook today! My daughter is transgender, blogging, and going through all the steps of changing her gender markings. It’s not easy! She indicated that if buying a gun was as hard as changing your gender markings there would be far fewer gun owners. Any way just wanted to thank you for your invite. Maybe one day I’ll do a blog about what it’s like being the only supporter of your transgender child in the land of red necks.

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